"take a look at yourself before you accuse me" eric clapton

People seem so worried about children and how they are growing up, and they are always left dumbfounded when something goes wrong, suicide, murder, or drugs, parents need to take a look at themselves first, and stop trying to blame society for all their problems. Children first learn their world and how to judge or interpret it from their immedediate family, whether that be parents, or other family members depending on the culture you come from, and children dont listen to what they are told, because they just copy what they see, so the more you practice what you preach the better, and this will put them in good stead for the rest of their future, because there are going to be negative influences out there and unfavourable situations, but if they have a good foundation then they will come back and they will be the better for it

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CHILDREN THERE ALL WE'VE GOT

I wish i could do a survey or some kind of study on parents and their minds, and would like to find out why sort resort to physical or verbal punishment. I've learnt recently that i think a lot of comes from a parents iniability to know their own emotions and lack knowledge in dealing with stressful situations. As not every day is exactly the same, one day a child can do something and everybody laughs, but the next time that child does it. they get abused, and sometimes its just because the parent has had a bad day, or because they dont know what else to do, its easy to hit and scream at a child, but it takes patience to teach and carry out other forms of punishment.
Do parents even think how one situation can effect a child in the long run, are parents afraid, or are they just tired sometimes, its seems to be the most difficult task, that comes with no training.
There isnt a subject these days that isnt done at some educational facility.
But i've found out that the stability of a parents mind, is the biggest difference in a childs ability to grow up be a positive person in this world.

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WAKE UP WERE NOT ALL LIKE YOU AND WE ALL DONT WANNA BE LIKE YOU

Your never going to convert people unless they want to, and your never going to nationalise countries, if people dont care about a few white lines on a map by the white man. So many people in africa and the middle east still live in either tribal or religious groups, and dont recognise a national identity, this is why there has been unrest in these countries for so long, because they dont care about what some white man hundreds of years ago, and thousands of miles away said.

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MONEY MONEY MONEY

Its seems these days that the better the medicines get, the fewer people can afford them,

The more food we have the more we charge, and the less who are fed,

People say were so advanced, but then why are there so many people, poor, sick, starving, stressed and fighting.

AND,

How is that all of our great technologies have come about because of war, lazziness, and money.

And,

If life is so good, why is stress the number one killer for the western world, and malaria for the third worlds

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