Friday, September 30, 2011

Celestine Prophecy Insight 8 Review

8. That evolution can't be done alone, so begin to practice the new "Interpersonal Ethic" by uplifting those who cross your path. Talk to people who make spontaneous eye contact with you. Avoid co-dependent relationships. Be there for people. Call attention to other people's control dramas. In groups, speak when the spirit (instead of the ego) moves you.



8. Relating to others. This insight comes in several pieces.
• Children can be raised without control dramas if they have constant, undivided access to an adult who can give them the energy they need.
• Development can be blocked by an "addiction to another person". The subtle energy has a male and female side. If you can access one and someone else the other, then for a short time the couple can be filled with energy. But the focus on the other person eventually cuts each off from the universal energy. The two begin competing for energy, restarting control dramas. This is the falling-in-love/falling-out-of-love phenomenon.
• Everyone who crosses our path has a message for us. We should give them energy and help them get clear so that they can accurately deliver the message.
• Other people's control dramas will break down if we name them and refuse to play a role in them.



This is about incorporating the practices into your daily life stop feeding others but beware who you try to inform, and how, its about tone and delivery, don’t become egotistical and blame others or put them down, try to ask them simple questions about why and what they were doing or thinking, if you come on too strong their ego may not be ready to receive and become defensive in which they will close down and you will not be able to communicate with them, also you will begin to stop playing the role, the other persons control drama will naturally fade. If small groups of people around the world can do this it will gradually spread, and their will be huge energy shifts, and the process will speed up.





Thursday, September 29, 2011

Celestine Prophecy Insight 7 Review

7. Once cleared of traumas, you can build energy through contemplation and meditation, focus on you basic life question, and start riding a steady stream of intuitions, dreams, and synchronistic coincidences, all guiding you in the direction of your own evolution and transformation.


7. Using intuition. When we are in touch with the energy, clear of our control dramas, and aware of the questions relevant to this moment, our intuition supplies the answers we need. Once we are aware of these answers, we need only watch for meaningful coincidences to show us how to act on them.


Now we have the base we need to build upon it, contemplation, reflection, meditation, and interacting with others who are going through this course will allow you to share your experiences and offer alternative ways of action, speeding up peoples growth. This is really about awakening to the real world and not the world you have been told about, but the deep root causes for our behaviours and feelings, so much of what we see are only shadows and myths










Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Why do men become so violent with the ones they LOVE.???

If you truely love someone, how can you ever want to bring harm to them???
Is it that for too long society has told us that men dont cry, that men dont even emotions, and that these emotions get bottled up inside and end up poping, causing men to suffer breif bouts of insanity???? Is it that men fear their emotions and have no understanding or way to control how they feel??? Is it due to other scenarios that they have created in their own minds, and need to act out and blames to justify their own bad behaviour??? How much does it have to do with society, families, cultures, media and myth??? I wish I could answer these questions and help all the men in the world. Just think how much suffering would cease over night, how much stress and worry, how much pain and fear, HOW MUCH LOVE COULD RISE UP AND TAKE THEIR PLACE.



Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Celestine Prophecy Insight 6 Review

To change ourselves first we have to know ourself. We have to be able to CONTEMPLATE AND REFLECT upon on our own behaviour honestly and see the effect it has on ourself and those around us. We have to analyze our own emotions, and question them. Question why we do things, and how others act toward us. Once we are able to identify things as they truely are we become aware that we act differently to different people, and that we sometimes have negative thoughts and emotions. All our actions are first born from our thoughts. But when we are with people are we acting out a particular role?, or are we being honest with our self and them?. Reflect upon how they make you feel, how words effect your feelings, and watch how others try to control you and the people around them, or how people are controlled by the people around them. Question your own motives, are you often mean/cruel to others? Do you enjoy watching poeple in pain? or Do you enjoy helping people? Do you care what others think? Do you act differently around different people? Do you enjoy talking about emotions and feelings? Are you afraid of meeting new people? How do you deal with anger? Do you take our your frustrations out on others or do you allow them to build up? The knowing and unknowing you must become aware of your own control drama and others, and why, and how to change the way you deal with people, but these control dramas are not easy to break and they take time and work, you can not just turn them off, a daily routine helps where you write down what happened and how you dealt with the situation, and if you did what you think was right, or do you think you could have done something different, it can be very difficult to decide right and wrong, You will also become aware of others control drama and when they are competeing for your energy, but you will be able to avoid this situation, maybe even stop it or reverse it, if we also know our parents control drama this will greatly help to understand our own, and understand our parents a lot more, a lot is not their fault as a lot of the control dramas power is done subconsciencly , you will also be overcome with relief as a huge burden is lifted, letting go, and forgiveness will fill your heart, no one is perfect and we all make mistakes, most people try to do their best but they are overcome with their own control dramas and it steps in and we lose sight of what should be done. When more people get through this stage this is when a critical mass will emerge as others behaviours change, which inturn will change other peoples attitudes. Before this point there is only knowing yet there is little experience or understanding, but as the experiences increase, awareness increases you will be better equipped to relate to others.








6. Childhood traumas block our ability to fully experience the mystical. All humans, because of their upbringing, tend toward one of four control dramas:
o Intimidators steal energy from others by threat.
o Interrogators steal it by judging and questioning.
o Aloof people attract attention (and energy) to themselves by playing coy.
o Poor me's make us feel guilty and responsible for them.
Become aware of the family dynamics that created your control drama and you can focus on your essential question, which is how to make of your life a higher- level synthesis of your parents' lives.




Getting clear. In order to be in a state of love with the world on a regular basis, we have to let go of patterns of behavior we developed to take energy from others.
First, we have to become aware of our "control dramas" and break our controlling habits. There are four control patterns or ways of causing others to give us energy, two actively demanding energy, two passively creating conditions in which energy is sent. "Active" control dramas include intimidation and interrogation - asking questions and then picking apart the answers. "Passive" control dramas include aloofness - creating an air of mystery that entices others to send energy--and "poor me"--creating a sense that if others don't provide energy, something awful will happen to the controller.
Second, we have to "get clear" of our control dramas. We must understand our parents' control dramas and how these shaped ours. Then we must learn what meaning our parents' lives had for us, and how this determines our own developmental work. The things we would change about our parents - individually and together - are what we need to work on in our own lives.




Monday, September 26, 2011

Should i be easier on her?

I had a dream the other night, about goin easier on my partner about money. Since i was young i was taught about how to manage money and save, and do a budget. My partner on the other hand never had the opportunity. Coming from a very poor family she never had that much in life, and certainly never had the chance to manage money. So ive learnt that its unreasonable to expect other to be able to follow your own strict habits, especialy if they have never had the chance. I try to live my life in quite a strict manner, which i learnt while training as monk. I enjoy living such a life, but i think its unfair of me to expect others to live in such a way. I take enjoyment in spending time with my children when i can, i enjoy paying my bills On time, and i enjoy spending time at home, i drink once a week, i dont smoke, and i have no addictions other than cookies, i dont steal i dont lie, i dont make promises i cant keep, therefor i do what i say. Thou i find this easy to do, i now know others are unable to and i shouldnt expect them to even thou i find them quite easy.



Your all addicted to something, is it a choice?

There are so many addictions out there, but why??? I think primarily it has to do with peoples inability to enjoy the silence of the present moment.


One of the first documented uses of the word addict was used as an adjective meaning of delivered or devoted. This was in 1529, and comes from the Latin word addictus which comes from addicere. In this case, the word ‘ad’ meaning deliver, yield, devote, and the word ‘dicere’ meaning say or declare. However, the history of addiction in connection to a drug didn’t come along until 1906 with a reference to opium. This is the date in which the term became more widely used. From that point on, ‘addiction’ was mostly a term that was pharmacological, relating to the process of ones body becoming dependant as their drug tolerance rose.


Many define addiction by using the term control of a substance or emotion, but then how can you be addcited, if you have no choice?


Here is a list of things people can be addicted to?
Video games, the internet, online games, pain, anger, clothes, money, bullying, drugs, sex, people, places, music, religion, animals, eating, fighting, watching TV, shopping, driving, gambling, stealing, swearing, killing, destroying, annoying, slapping, scratching, cleaning,
Adrenalin, Anime Applause Art Arson Attention Authority Auto Racing
Bulimia Beastiality Body Building Coffee Caffeine Coin collecting Crime Ego Exercising Fame Food Husbands Isolation Junk collecting Lust
Laziness Love Lacquer thinners Masturbation Masochism, Meetings (as in hiding in meeting) Men Marriage Muscle Relaxants Over achieving Over eating
Over working Occult Prayer (without action) Pleasure Pornography
People Pleasing Perfectionism Pain Killers Relationships Racetrack betting Action Risky behaviors Sadism Satanism Shopping Serotonin - SELF - ego
Self Help Books, programs Self Mutilation Spotlights (see fame) Sniffing Solvents Sleeping Sleeping Pills Shock Treatments
Speed Steroids Torturing - emotionally or physically - Power addiction
Therapy - codependency as opposed to getting on with life.
Thrills Vandalism Violence Voodoo Vomiting - see Bulimia
Voyeurism Wealth Weightlifting Women Work Wheat Flour - Carbohydrates



None of these created the Addiction, men did, Is it an addiction if you have no choice?

Are habits about choice?


Thursday, September 22, 2011

The Art of Loving

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The Art of Loving

Author(s) Erich Fromm
Publication date 1956
Media type Print
The Art of Loving is a book written by psychologist and social philosopher Erich Fromm (1900–80).[1] In this work, Fromm recapitulated and complemented the theoretical principles of human nature found in Fromm's Escape from Freedom and Man for Himself – principles which were revisited in many of his other major works.

Fromm presents love as a skill that can be taught and developed. He rejects the idea of loving as something magical and mysterious that cannot be analyzed and explained, and is therefore skeptical about popular ideas such as "falling in love" or being helpless in the face of love. Because modern humans are alienated from each other and from nature, we seek refuge from our aloneness in romantic love and marriage (pp. 79–81). However, Fromm observes that real love "is not a sentiment which can be easily indulged in by anyone." It is only through developing one's total personality to the capacity of loving one's neighbor with "true humility, courage, faith and discipline" that one attains the capacity to experience real love. This should be considered a rare achievement (p. vii).

We are starved for love, yet all our attempts to attain love in Western society are bound to fail, unless – like any thing else we want to do well – we practice and improve our self discipline, concentration and patience, and place high priority on our mastery of the art of loving (pp. 99–123). Readers will be disappointed if they expect the kind of easy answers and techniques often presented in self-help psychology bestsellers. Perhaps the closest that the book comes to such a recipe is the idea that the active character of true love involves four basic elements: care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge (p. 24). Each of these is difficult to define and can differ markedly depending on the people involved and their circumstances. Seen in these terms, love is hard work, but it is also the most rewarding kind of work.

One of the most interesting concepts in the book is self-love. According to Fromm, loving oneself is quite different from being arrogant, conceited or egocentric. Loving oneself means caring about oneself, taking responsibility for oneself, respecting oneself, and knowing oneself (e.g. being realistic and honest about one's strengths and weaknesses). In order to be able to truly love another person, one needs first to love oneself in this way.

Fromm is sceptical of exclusive love, which he calls égoïsme à deux – a relationship in which each person is entirely focussed on the other, to the detriment of other people around them. In a healthy marriage, faithfulness applies to sex, but not to Fromm's concept of love, because love means a generally caring, responsible, respectful and honest attitude toward all other people.

The book includes explorations of the theories of brotherly love, motherly and fatherly love, erotic love, self-love, and the love of God (pp. 7–76), and an insightful examination into love's disintegration in contemporary Western culture (pp. 77–98).



Celestine Prophecy Insight 5 Review

5. The key to overcoming conflict in the world is the mystical experience, which is available to everyone. To nurture the mystical and build your energy, allow yourself to be filled with a sense of love.


5. Energy abundance. In fact, competition is unnecessary because subtle energy exists in abundance. In particular, we can acquire more by eating plants which have high energy levels. (And we can ensure that the plants have high energy levels by paying attention to them, by giving them energy.) Being in a loving state not only connects our energy to the object of our love, but to a greater source of energy as well. This is the essence of mystical experience. The goal of mystical practice - and practice of the lessons of the Celestine Prophecy - is to get and remain connected with the energy. Moreover, a person's energy is the source of the meaningful coincidences noticed in the First Insight. Each mystical experience stretches a person's potential, causing them to exist "at a higher state of vibration".
The best description of all this comes a little later in the book. Father Sanchez says, "Love is not an intellectual concept or a moral imperative or anything else. It is a background emotion that exists when one is connected to the energy available in the universe, which , of course, is the energy of God."











As the awareness grows one will naturally wish to understand the energy, which will lead to the understanding and realization we dont need others to gain energy, and that one doesn’t need to compete anymore for energy from others, and will look for ways to increase energy on our own. And that we need to behin to feel the love from within first, and when this begins to build you will see that you dont need anyone, or have to rely upon anyone for energy or happiness anymore, and when we connect with this energy we can always access it, but we need to keep it active otherwise it will die down and we will forget, this is why its so hard for people to change because they forget and lose the connections they have made.





Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Celestine Prophecy Insight 4 Review

4. An unconscious competition for energy underlies all conflicts. By dominating or manipulating others, we get the extra energy we think we need. Sure, it feels good - but both parties are damaged in the conflict.

4. Competition for energy. A fundamental assumption underlies most human interactions: we must compete for this energy, drawing it from others and protecting ourselves from others' attempts to draw it from us. This leads to some nasty interactions.



This will naturally follow on from an increased awareness, stress, emotions, and will hopefuly lead people to question what is really important in life? what are the things i really need in life? why do the same things hapen to me in relationships? why are the same conflicts arising? This competition when you look at it from inside you will see that it exists everywhere, and that our egos hurt us, and others.






Monday, September 19, 2011

Celestine Prophecy Insight 3 Review

3. Start to get acquainted with the subtle energy that infuses all things. With practice, you can learn to see the aura around any living being and to project your own energy around it to give it strength.


3. Subtle energy. There is an energy, previously undetected by science, that forms the basis of all things. Human perception of that energy starts with an increased awareness of beauty: people, animals, plants, ecosystems that have a high level of that energy appear particularly beautiful. By becoming aware of that energy, we become able to notice when and how we give and receive energy




This is where the fun begins, and you can actually incorporate this "message" into your life. Becoming more mindful of your own actions and emotions will help this energy to arise. I also have to propose you start doing if you arent already meditation. You can learn from books, or the internet, but if you are having trouble, im sure you can find somewhere giving "lessons". This is also the beginning of when one can understand vibrations and resonannce. You will begin to pick on things and people a lot more, and by using your heart as the guide it will become clearer how to change your life. It will take time, and dont expect this to happen in a few hours days or even months.



Saturday, September 17, 2011

Celestine Prophecy Insight 2 Review

2. Observe our culture within its proper historical context. The first half of the past millennium was spent under the thumb of the church; in the second half we became preoccupied with material comfort. Now, at the end of the twentieth century, we've exhausted that preoccupation. We're ready to discover life's ultimate purpose.


2. Historical perspective. This point in human history can best be understood by a revisioning of the past millennium. In the early part of the millennium, human consciousness was dominated by beliefs promulgated by the Catholic Church: one's proper place in society, humanity at the center of the universe, and the battle between good and evil. These beliefs gave meaning to life. This domination was challenged during the Renaissance and Reformation. At that time, humanity established a grand project of exploring the world, using the tools of science, with the hope of getting a new answer to the meaning of life. While waiting for that answer to come in, attention turned to increasing material comfort. That project is now at an end--material comfort has been achieved, but we have lost touch with sources of meaning. Moreover, the answers we wanted are now appearing--not necessarily from institutional science, but from a variety of sources.


I find very few who are searching/discovering anything from the past and the preoccupation of money is blinding so many along with religion. Especially since so many still struggle for their basic daily needs. But the answers r not now appearing they have been with us for thousands of years, there are still to many people blinded. But I can see how the history of man has been leading to something, as the world comes together, and in areas of science , and the fact more and more people are leaving religion.




Thursday, September 15, 2011

Stop UR EGO controlling ur emotions and ACtIoN, use LOVE

The moment you allow your ego to control you, you will be forever unhappy, and you will be restless and easily upset as the actions and motives only go to serve present moment fears, and attacks, but when you allow love to enter your heart and guide you in the world, your life will become simplified and people will welcome you, and they will open up to you, and you will be able to see and understand others better, and realize how many of the people in the world today commit acts that they had no intetion of doing, until their ego woke up and said YES.

Now is the time to allow love into your hearts, forgive those who have wronged you and know, you are a human being, equal to all that deserves love and care, but also understands others are not strong enough to let go.


All The Worlds Suffering Arises From Our Own Inability To

be satisfied with the present moment, we are constantly pushing blame onto others or giving false hope to future situations. There isn’t a problem in the world that can’t be solved by a mass shift in the human psyche. Crime would drop to almost zero, there would be little need for drugs, other than experimentation with perception, opening their minds to different realities, or for those who are unable to experience the energies that exist out there. The day to day stresses of life would no longer greatly affect people, physically or mentally. People’s health would improve and police and governments would be reduced to facilitators. Education would not only focus on numbers and books but also emotional and mental training, an increased awareness would be encourages and a better understanding of the root cause of suffering and our own emotions.

The two keys are letting go and Holding on

and

Detachment, and following up

There is little we can control in this world but our minds is one of them if we are given the tools to, and we practice and excercise these tools on a daily basis.



Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Celestine Prophecy Insight 1 Review

1. Meaningful coincidences. We are at a point in the developmental history of human consciousness where development will accelerate. The major evidence for this is the increased number of meaningful coincidences people are noticing in their lives.

Summary by Alan Atkisson (Aug/94)
1. Feeling restless? You're not alone: Everybody's starting to look for more meaning in life. Start paying closer attention to those seemingly "Chance Coincidences" - strange occurrences that feel like they were meant to happen. They are actually synchronistic events, and following them will start you on your path to spiritual truth.

http://www.gurus.org/dougdeb/Courses/bestsellers/Celestine/Insights.htm

http://deoxy.org/9insight.htm





I think its naïve and arrogant to say that we are any closer to a critical mass when still a large portion of the population are still so poor and with out decent living conditions, that they are more concerned about getting food and clothes. Also it’s going to take more than just an awareness of coincidences to create the critical mass. The restlessness arises from a basic awareness of something not quite right, but is still unable to recognize the cause. And who are the “Everybody” referred to, I still find in many cultures and counties the people aren’t even looking and are still so consumed by material gain, that I feel we are still year’s maybe decades away from this growing awareness to begin, let alone a critical mass that’s going to change the world. I fear that with advent of globalization, there is a very good chance that all countries will become more equal in the standards of living. Which could be the beginning of the end for us all, with so much hatred in the world caused by religion. The pressure will only increase for us all too just “get along”.




Religion and Free Will can not exist together

how can people say God gave us free will, but then lays down all these rules and if u dont follow him u r forever damned?
Doesnt thaat sound hypocritical?




Monday, September 12, 2011

Dont cry, Im here for you

for when u reach out for help, i will take your hand, n with our hands joined, our hearts can become one, and we can lift each other up
, message me, when this begins in large groups a change in the world will happen, im always here for you, to listen n love you


Sunday, September 11, 2011

Can u help me with my DREAM??????

I had a dream,

Im standing in an old english house, with creaking floor boards, grey and worn, i notice the sun light beam throu 2 windows, i c no door, out of the corner of my eye i c three pieces of what look like cardboard or is it rubber, i cant be sure but they r black, they r racing up n down the room on the worn floor, i catch 2 easily but the third seems to be a lot smarter, it jumps and swerves my advances, i cant catch it, then all of i sudden i stand up straight n say "I want to help you" instantly it stops, im able to pick it up like a rose from a garden, i hold it my hand for a second to try and c what it is, then i feel a prsence behind i turn around n theres a boy sitting on a bed but there is no bed, only a shadow, the looks as thou hes floating but i notice a shadow of a bed on the wall, he murmurs something i cant quite catch, all i can recall is he had an english accent, short blond hair n was wearing a school uniform, i asked the boy "whats the matter" he replied "i Know...... then i awake with terrible indigestion.......... I usually dont remeber dreams, so any1 who has a take on this or any questions please reply? Is there something im suppossed to do? Some one looking for me? or i them i need to find?

cRITICAL mASs

R U A PART OF THE NEW EVOLUTION?
r U TIRED OF THE SUFERING?
r U rEAdY tO MaKe THE next STeP IN eVOlUtion?

gOVERNMENTS NEED U MORE THAN U NEED THEM

CHANGE CAN ONLY HAPPEN WHEN
ENOUGH PEOPLE HAVE THE SAME EXPERINCE AND UNDERSTANDING


What

ARE YOU SEARCHING FOR?

The Matrix

= Religion---

What is the Matrix? Control. The Matrix is a computer-generated dream world built to keep us under control

Thursday, September 01, 2011

i wish

I wish I knew how to show people to see how much pain they cause others.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how much pain they cause themselves.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how love can save them.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how letting go is freedom.
I wish I knew how to show people to see into their own minds.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how money doesn't bring happiness.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how important family and friends are.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how your time is short.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how death is always near.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how you invite stress into your life.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how we are all equal.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how to stand up together.
I wish I knew how to show people to see that what you can buy isn't has useful as what's in your mind.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how to use drugs, and not let drugs use them.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how drugs can't always help you.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how much being dishonest hurt's others, but hurts you more in the long run.
I wish I knew how to show people to see all the power to change the world already exists within ur own being.
I wish I knew how to show people to see how know one can make them see but themselves.

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